What is it?
There's three games that you can play in any circumstances:
One is the I win-you lose game. This is the most common game played on the Planet. It is based on competition. If someone else wins, then I have to lose and vice versa. It is based on scarcity - that there is not enough of whatever the game is about. People play win-lose games about love, attention, money, job position, territory, land, religious faith, friendship, time etc ...
Another game invented in the 1960's is the win-win game. This game is based on cooperation and compromise. If you do this, then I do that and we both win a little. Often this game is rapidly turned into a lose-lose game. If you are willing to give this up, then I will give that up. For example, in a relationship one partner might say: "If you tell your mother not to come for Christmas, then I won't go out with my friends and stay at home with you". This is still a scarcity-based game, when there's not enough of Possibility for everybody to get what they want.
The Winning Happening game was created by Possibility Managers to describe their experience of Possibility Management spaces. In those spaces, there is no more 'I' or 'You'. The winning is not personal, it is for the whole group at large and also beyond the group, it is winning happening for the whole morphogenetic field of the Earth that's being upgraded because a few individuals somewhere are upgrading theirs.
Winning Happening is based on abundance of resources. There is so much resource that the only way to use it is to give it away as fast as possible, for the next batch of resource to be able to come through.
Abundance is a Bright Principle.
Abundance is one of the multiple facets of Responsibility and Consciousness. Becoming abundance is taking responsibility for sourcing the resources that are needed and wanted.
Becoming abundance is becoming conscious of the our power to create the resources that we need and want.
Responsibility is applied consciousness. Therefore, being more conscious makes us more responsible and more powerful to source our own resources. Becoming more conscious happen through building the structure in us that hold consciousness: matrix. Experimenting builds matrix. Building matrix to hold more consciousness. Building matrix reflexively makes us more responsible to source our own resources and become abundance!
Modern culture thoughtware-belief about resources is that resources are scarce. There is not enough, therefore I should whatever it takes to take it for myself first, before others take it and there is none for me. The people who are the best at doing whatever it takes do climb up the power structure and have more than others are psychopaths.
Scarcity is a Shadow Principle, a facet of Irresponsibility and Unconsciousness. By living in scarcity, you make yourself a victim of the story that 'there is not enough in this world for me'.
Become at source to create the resources that you need for your project, relationship, life, etc...
There are 3 domains of Love: ordinary love, extraordinary love and Archetypal Love.
In ordinary love, there is never enough love because love comes from out there, love comes from somebody else who has to provide love to me. If nobody gives me love, then there is no love. If you are stuck in ordinary life, there is not enough for everyone and you have to compete for it within constructs like monogamy, marriage, nucleus family, jealousy, being cheated on/cheating, etc...